Dear Christina, Truly, if to be honest, I feel as though I am heartbroken over a previous marriage. I am stuck also in grief after also losing my mom at the same time as divorce. Now feeling very lonely though in a relationship and question a lot do I matter. Don’t understand why this loneliness […]
Dear Christina, Not long ago, I saw one of your videos talking about the inner child. I started talking and praying to my inner child to try to heal him and to heal me. I know a lot of people have had bad experiences and some way worse than me, but what concerns me is […]
Dear Christina, I just want clarity on my relationship because I’m having trouble being vulnerable in my connection. I feel like there’s a disconnect every time things don’t go a certain way and I’m working on not taking things so personally even though he’s my first real connection. – Simone Dear Simone, Thank you for […]
Dear Christina, Why can’t I push past the barriers in my mind, whether they originated from myself or others? I used to think that I couldn’t push pass my limits, didn’t find a reason to, or just didn’t try to until recently where I’ve made the effort to change my mindset and how I view […]
Dear Christina, How do I stop getting attached to people so quickly? This guy and I have been talking for a bit and decided to be friends with benefits and I really like him like a lot. But as of now he’s taking a break from social media, which is the platform we talk on […]
Dear Christina, My boyfriend of seven months broke up with me on Friday. We did long distance (bordering states) and saw each other about two weekends a month since he’s a Marine. Our relationship seemed healthy and we discussed plans for engagement when he gets back from deployment (October-April). We talked about our future together […]
Dear Christina, This weekend I went out to eat with my mom and aunt. And it was interesting for me to see the situation my mom is in. For basically all my life, she had been pushing me to become a nurse because “I’ll always have a job”, she would say. But to this day […]
Dear Christina, This is going to be hard to convey in one entry. I’m 33 and recently moved out of living with ex-fiancé. I have done weekly therapy for 9 months and tried really hard to learn healthy/respectful/productive ways to argue and no progress was made. We were together 4 years. I’d been trying to […]
Dear Christina, I keep sabotaging my health…overeating and drinking the last four years after not drinking for 20 years. Please help. ~Tami Dear Tami, Thank you for writing in. In your submission, you didn’t include information about what might be going on in your life that’s causing you to change your patterns and begin sabotaging […]
Dear Christina, Here are my questions for you: Why can’t I seem to accomplish my dreams? Why do I negotiate against myself when it comes to doing the things that I know I should be doing, the things that I schedule myself to do? Why am I still relying on a job rather than relying […]
Dear Christina, The other day I saw a Bible verse that said honor God in all things that I do. How do I even do that? What does that look like? -Anonymous Dear Anonymous, Thank you for writing in and asking such a simple yet profound question. Interestingly, I believe that the answer to healing […]
Dear Christina, I was doing some reflecting and it came to my attention that in a way I fear success. Mainly because I’ve never really accomplished anything yet (nothing really to brag about). I was thinking to myself about how much I’d make if I’d do my first real estate deal. Even on the low […]